
Filed in Tennessee, Wedding Days — October 26, 2026

Kaitlyn and Ethan’s Candies Creek Farm wedding was clean, simple and elegant, but what I remember most about their day is how emotional it was. From quiet moments with family while getting ready to their first touch, private vows and finally seeing each other at the ceremony, this was a wedding between two people who truly cared for one another.
They intentionally kept their wedding small, surrounding themselves with the family and friends they most wanted beside them. At a venue Kaitlyn had loved from the very beginning, they created a day centered on being together and celebrating the relationships closest to them.



Kaitlyn knew almost immediately that Candies Creek Farm was where she wanted to get married. It was the first venue she and Ethan toured, and she said she wanted it from the moment they walked inside.
The clean, bright feel of the Candies Creek Farm venue worked beautifully with the simple, elegant style they envisioned for their wedding. Rather than filling the day with unnecessary extras, they were intentional about where they invested, splurging on photography, videography and their wedding cake.
Kaitlyn spent the beginning of the day getting ready surrounded by people closest to her, including her mom, who had also played a huge role in planning the wedding alongside her. One of Kaitlyn’s favorite memories from the entire day was sharing a special moment with her parents, which made those hours before the ceremony about much more than simply getting dressed and ready.
And as the ceremony got closer, so did the nerves.



Before the ceremony, Kaitlyn and Ethan chose to have a first touch and read their private vows to one another. Standing on opposite sides of a doorway allowed them to hear each other’s voices, hold hands and share an emotional moment together without seeing each other before Kaitlyn walked down the aisle.
Whenever a couple tells me they want to combine a first touch with private vows, I always point out one important consideration: you won’t be able to look each other in the eye while making those promises to forever.
For some couples, preserving that first moment of seeing each other at the ceremony matters more. For others, being face-to-face while exchanging private vows is something they don’t want to give up. There isn’t a right answer, but it is worth thinking about which experience matters more to you before deciding how you want that part of your wedding day to unfold.
For Kaitlyn and Ethan, the first touch allowed them to have a private space to share their vows and connect before the ceremony while still saving the moment they first saw one another for the aisle. And considering how anxious Kaitlyn had been about walking down to Ethan, preserving that moment made seeing him at the end of the aisle especially significant.




Of everything Kaitlyn had been anxious about leading up to their Candies Creek wedding, walking down the aisle to Ethan was at the top of the list.
They had already held hands. They had heard each other’s voices and shared the promises they had written for one another. But they still hadn’t actually seen each other.
Then Kaitlyn walked down the aisle. Seeing Ethan waiting for her became one of her favorite memories of their entire wedding day. After the emotion of their first touch and private vows, this was a completely different kind of moment. The anticipation was finally over, and they could actually see each other.
Their ceremony was emotional because the relationships at the center of the day genuinely mattered to them. Kaitlyn described Ethan and her parents as meaning more to her than anything, and those relationships were woven throughout their Candies Creek Farm wedding, from the quiet moments before the ceremony to celebrating together afterward.






If there was one thing Kaitlyn would change about their wedding day, it would be giving themselves more time.
She said she would have added another hour to their vendors so the day didn’t feel quite as rushed. That’s particularly interesting because the thing that surprised her most was just how quickly the wedding went. Looking back, she wished she had been able to be more present in it.
More time doesn’t necessarily mean adding more things to your wedding day. Often, it means exactly the opposite.
It can mean having ten extra minutes with your parents while getting ready. It can mean not immediately moving from one emotional moment into the next item on the timeline. It can mean actually finishing a conversation with someone you love, enjoying the food you paid for or simply standing beside your new spouse without needing to know what happens next.
The goal isn’t to pack another hour with activities. It’s to give the day room to breathe.
That is especially worth considering when building a timeline for a Candies Creek Farm wedding. Think not only about how long each event technically takes, but also how you want the day itself to feel while you’re living it.




Looking back, Kaitlyn considers keeping their wedding small one of the best decisions they made.
Their smaller guest count kept the focus on their families, their relationship and spending time with the people who came to celebrate with them. After such an emotional morning and ceremony, the reception became an opportunity to settle in, eat, celebrate and enjoy having their people together in one place.
Their reception also carried through the clean and elegant feeling they had envisioned from the beginning, including the wedding cake Kaitlyn had chosen as one of the things worth splurging on.
But one of her biggest pieces of advice for other couples has very little to do with decor, flowers or any of the other details:
When you’re in the moment, don’t take it too seriously.
Weddings have timelines. They have vendor arrivals, RSVPs, meals, photographs and dozens of moving pieces. Eventually, though, the planning ends and you have to actually live the day you spent all that time creating.





Rather than pulling Kaitlyn and Ethan away from their guests multiple times throughout the day for couples portraits, we saved their portrait time for golden hour. It gave them time to take a moment to themselves, eat some food and let the day soak in, before stepping away together as the light softened across Candies Creek Farm.
Golden hour gave us beautiful light, but it also created a natural pause in the day. After all the anticipation and emotion leading into their ceremony, Kaitlyn and Ethan finally had a little time to simply be together as newlyweds.
My approach to portraits is a balance between direction and giving couples room to interact naturally. I’ll place you where the light works, help with positioning when you need it and use prompts to create movement and connection rather than expecting you to somehow know exactly what to do in front of a camera.
I also showed Kaitlyn a few photographs on the back of my camera as we worked, something she specifically mentioned appreciating afterward. Sometimes seeing a beautiful photograph right there gives you the little bit of reassurance you need to stop wondering how everything looks and get back to enjoying the experience together.





After the wedding, I asked Kaitlyn about her experience working with me. Her answer was simple: “The experience was great.”
When I asked what stood out to her, she shared that she really liked that I would take a few photographs and then come show them to her. But the thing she mentioned more than once was my calmness.
“Your calmness really helped me.”
And when I asked whether she would recommend me to someone else, her answer brought it right back to what she needed on such an emotional day:
“Yes, you are very calm and I needed that that day.”
That means a lot to me. Creating beautiful photographs is only one part of what I do on a wedding day. I also want you to feel like you have someone beside you who can offer direction when you need it, stay steady when things feel overwhelming and then step back when it’s time for you to simply experience what’s happening.






I hope there are countless days ahead that feel slower than this one did. Days with plenty of time to be present with each other, laugh together and soak in the life they’re building.
And when they look back at these photographs years from now, I hope they remember exactly how it felt to reach for each other’s hands without looking, hear those private promises, finally see each other at the end of the aisle and walk away from Candies Creek Farm married.
Kaitlyn and Ethan, I wish you a lifetime of that same love, connection and togetherness.

If you’re planning your own Candies Creek Farm wedding and want photography that gives you direction when you need it while leaving room to actually experience your day, I’d love to hear what you’re planning.
Inquire about your Candies Creek Farm wedding photography
Venue: Candies Creek Farm
Coordinator: Kristy Mason
Photography: L.Morgan Photography
Videographer: Jonathan Desai
Dress: Ever After Bridal
Hair: Chanler Moats
Florist: Dream Roses Weddings
Catering: Tres Hermanos
Cake: Piece of Cake Bakery
DJ: McLov1n